5 Tips to LOVE on Yourself NOW


During this time of world crisis (the pandemic of 2020), it is absolutely vital that you LOVE on your SELF(S) and do things that are not only good self-care, but engage in practices that raise your energetic vibration. Why? Because that boosts your immune system!

I’m using the acronym SELFS to share these tips. I know it’s not a word! However, we have many aspects of our SELF in need of care at this time. So…without further ado here are my 5 Tips to Love on Yourself(s) Now:

1. Sage Yourself and Your Space

Sage has long been used by Native Americans and other indigenous people to clear negativity and for healing. But did you know that burning sage can actually reduce airborne bacteria?  Sage has both antibacterial and antimicrobial (stops or inhibits growth of microorganisms) properties.  A 2007 study published in the Journal of Ethnopharmacol found “medicinal smoke caused over 94% reduction of bacterial counts by 60 min and the ability of the smoke to purify or disinfect the air and to make the environment cleaner” lasted up to 24 hours!

Watch this video for more tips on when and how to perform a Space Clearing or if you need help, let me know.

2. Enjoy This Moment and Yourself

What can you appreciate about this very NOW moment that you are in? What are you grateful for? Ask, what is great about this? As you appreciate and enjoy this very moment, you shift your focus.

Doing the things that bring you JOY and the things you really love to do is another great way to shift your focus onto the positive and raise your vibration. These can be simple things like petting a puppy or sipping a cup of tea. Or do something with your hands, like crafts, cooking, crocheting or painting rocks. You might even re-read a favorite book or call a friend who always makes you laugh or watch a funny movie. Anything you do that makes you smile is showing love for your self.

3. Look Forward to Something

Anticipation is a great way to show yourself some love, too. When you have your next vacation planned, you daydream about how it will feel to be there. When you do this, your mind and body relax and “act as if” you are already there. Having something to look forward to helps you navigate the here and now, especially if you’re in the midst of a challenge. If you need help planning something, I’ve got you covered –> Join me for the Maui Celestial Retreat in October 2020 to be pampered and loved for a whole week!

4. Feel Your Emotions

Don’t ignore what you’re feeling, especially if you are triggered by what others are doing or saying or if you’re feeling upset, anxious or worried. Feelings are natural and they are spiritual messengers for us. However, in order to receive their messages, we need to pay attention to them! So, do this right now….

  • STOP and notice an emotion you are feeling.
  • Take 3 deep breaths in through your nose and out through your mouth.
  • Next, scan your body. Using worried as an example, notice where is the worry in your body?  Where do you feel it most prominently?  Is it in your stomach… your heart… your head…?
  • Then observe the worry as if it were a physical object. What does it look like?
  • Breathe into it… and notice… what is the size and shape of the object? Does it have a texture?  Is it moving or sitting still?  What color is it?  Is it heavy or light? Is it hot or cold? Is it growing or staying the same size?

Just taking these few minutes to observe your emotion as an object will help you feel it. If the object moves around in your body, you can follow it. However, be careful to just observe it. And LOVE it! Love that worry and let it know that everything is okay.  Let it know that it can stay or it can go and either way, you will love it.

I have a deeper process that I do with my clients that can help uncover where the emotion is stemming from, but this will give you a good start in feeling your emotions.

5. Sea Salt Baths or Ocean Dips

Salt has clearing and cleansing properties too and is great for clearing your energetic fields.  If you live on Maui or an ocean accessible place, you can simply float in the ocean, nature’s salt bath. If not, soak in a tub of hot water mixed with 2-3 cups of sea salt and 3 tablespoons of baking soda.

Slide into the water so you neck is immersed and soak for 15 minutes.  You can do this anytime you are feeling weary (emotionally or physically) or if you feel like you are “coming down” with something like a cold. I have found when I do this, that often the cold never comes or it resolves much more quickly.  If you have body aches, you can add Epsom salt to the bath. I also love adding essential oils or flower essences and lighting a candle to create a spa experience as I bathe.

Share with me in the comments below your favorite ways to Love on Yourself!


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Top 10 Ways to Increase Your Fun Load

Increase your fun load

“Reduce your workload by 30% and increase your fun load by 30% and you will increase your revenue by 100% and you will increase your productivity by 10,000%. More fun, less struggle equals more results on all fronts.”   – Abraham-Hicks

Top Ten Ways to Increase Your FUN Load

  1. Pet or play with an animal, go to the Humane Society or to the zoo
  2. Think about things that make you feel good
    * Memories
    * Things you like to do
    * How you helped a client
    * Your past successes
    * Funny jokes
  3. Walk outside or work outside on your deck
  4. Dream build: Create a dream board or book with pictures or notes about things you want to be, do or have in your life
  5. Use colorful folders and pens or fun supplies or desk organizers
  6. Experience something new
    * Take a class
    * Attend a workshop
    * Try a new recipe
    * Find a new Meet Up group
    * See a new movie
    * Paint
    * Walk or drive in a different direction than you normally do
  7. Look for things to appreciate and be grateful for all day long
    * Trees as you’re driving
    * Color of someone’s eyes
    * Interesting architecture
    * Electricity / heat / your car
    * People in your life ~ a kiss, a hug, a smile
    * Soft comfort of your sheets & bed
  8. Take a nap (when you sleep you reset your point of attraction and can start fresh with a better attitude)
  9. Go window shopping. I love to do this in conjunction with Abraham’s $100 bill exercise. Get a crisp $100 bill and put in your purse. Then, mentally spend it over and over every day so when you see something you like, think I could buy that and you could because you actually have that $100 bill in your purse. Occasionally, you may even want to spend it to buy something you really like!
  10. Flood your day with positive messages (see below for my favorites).
  • Put affirmation calendars in your bathrooms and on your desk
  • Listen to positive CDs in your car or Hay House radio
  • Bookmark your favorite You Tube Channels to watch/listen while cooking or folding laundry

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www.hayhouse.com for perpetual flip calendars: My favorites are Robert Holden’s Success Now, Wayne Dyer’s The Power of Intention and Abraham-Hicks’ Ask and It Is Given. I also like Louise Hay’s daily affirmation calendar (she creates a new one each year).

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